Flying with Kids: Insider Tips for a Smooth Journey

12 January 2025

Let’s face it—flying with kids can feel like preparing for battle. You're up against tantrums, restless legs, and a ticking time bomb of boredom. But don’t sweat it! Whether it’s your first flight with kids or you're a seasoned traveler looking to up your game, I've got some insider tips that will help make your journey (mostly) smooth and (hopefully) fun. So buckle up and get ready to become a pro at flying with kids.

Why Flying with Kids Doesn’t Have to Be Terrifying

Sure, kids are unpredictable, but there’s something incredibly rewarding about taking your little ones with you on an adventure. Traveling opens up their tiny eyes to new experiences, cultures, and horizons—and what better way to reach those places than by plane? The idea here is to have a strategy in place. Because a little preparation makes all the difference, trust me.

And no, it doesn't have to be terrifying. In fact, I'll walk you through everything—from packing to surviving the flight—so you can actually enjoy (yes, enjoy!) the journey.

Pre-Flight Preparation: Setting Up for Success

1. Pack Smart, Not Large

Packing for kids often feels like you’re preparing for the unknown—like a secret apocalypse only you’ve been warned about. But word to the wise: don’t overpack. Airlines have strict baggage policies, and you certainly don’t want to be lugging extra weight.

Here’s a helpful breakdown:
- Carry-On Essentials: Snacks, wipes, entertainment, extra clothes
- Checked Luggage: Think bulkier items like larger toys or books, and maybe even that bulky winter jacket if you're heading to colder weather.

Remember, less is more. Ask yourself, “Do I really need another set of crayons?” If the answer is no, leave it behind. The last thing you want is to be buried under bags while chasing after your toddler.

2. Snacks Are Your Best Friend

Listen, airplane food isn’t exactly kid-friendly. Bring a variety of snacks your little ones love. The key here is variety, because kids are all about options! From sliced fruit to crackers, and maybe even a few treats—having snacks on hand can turn a near-meltdown into a miraculously quiet moment.

A helpful insider tip: pack some snacks that take a little longer to eat, like granola bars. This can help keep them occupied for longer stretches.

If your child has any food allergies, be sure to let the airline know in advance so they're prepared!

3. Choose Your Seats Wisely

Don’t leave seating to chance! If you have infants or smaller children, aim for a bulkhead seat where there’s more legroom, and most airlines will allow you to bring your baby’s bassinet. If bulkhead isn’t available, try to snag aisle seats so you can easily get up when it’s bathroom time (and trust me, it’ll be bathroom time multiple times).

Not to forget, if you’re flying with a partner, one common strategy is to book the window and aisle seats in the same row—leaving the middle one open. Solo travelers often avoid selecting middle seats, increasing your chance of not having anyone sit between you!

4. Prepare for Ear Pressure

Many young kids experience discomfort from the changes in air pressure during takeoff and landing. Chewing or swallowing helps regulate ear pressure. Bring along pacifiers for babies or teach older kids to chew gum or sip water during these crucial moments. Sippy cups or bottles also work wonders for younger passengers.

On the Day of the Flight: Paving the Way for Smooth Sailing—or Flying!

1. Arrive Early, But Not Too Early

We always hear “arrive early,” but let’s be honest—waiting with kids at the airport is its own level of torture. Aim to arrive early enough to get through security smoothly, but not too early that you’re stuck waiting at the gate for hours.

Pro-tip: Check with the airline beforehand to see if they offer family boarding—a true lifesaver when you want a head start on settling in.

2. Security Checkpoints: How to Breeze Through

The dreaded security checkpoint. It’s the airport version of a funhouse (except, you know, not fun). Prepare yourself by having your liquids, gadgets, and important documents ready to go.

Here’s the good news: families with small children often get priority lanes through security. Take advantage of that! But also, be mentally prepared for extra screening—they always seem to check those diaper bags a little closer.

Also, if you’re traveling with formula, breast milk, or baby food, the TSA allows for extra quantities to be brought onboard, even if they exceed the usual liquid limits.

3. Bring Novelties (a.k.a. New Toys)

This one’s gold: bring out a “new” toy or activity just when things seem to be going haywire. Something fresh and exciting has the power to keep your child engaged for more time than you would expect. Think along the lines of sticker books, magnetic puzzles, or coloring pads. Surprise factor for the win!

4. Dress Comfortably... for Everyone

Kids and tight, uncomfortable clothing? Not a good mix. Opt for loose, cozy layers. You never know—the temperature on a plane can swing from chilly to warm. And don’t forget an extra set of clothes (for both them and you), just in case of spills or accidents!

Also, let’s talk shoes—they’ll be coming off during security, so choose slip-ons or Velcro sneakers to keep things simple.

Keeping Your Sanity In-Flight

1. Manage Expectations

First things first—lower your expectations. While you might typically sail through a flight absorbed in a movie marathon, this time you’ll be playing flight attendant to your child. And that’s okay! The goal here is a manageable flight, not a perfect one. Prepare for your attention to be split between snack service, entertainment coordinator, and comfort provider.

2. Screen Time Is Okay

Let me be perfectly honest: Screen time is your secret weapon. There, I said it. Load up that tablet with your child’s favorite movies, TV shows, or games. Don’t be a hero—sometimes you need to let them zone out, and that’s totally fine.

A good pair of kid-friendly headphones? Essential. This prevents the entire plane from getting a singalong to the theme song of Frozen (although some may enjoy it!).

3. Keep Them Moving

Sitting still for several hours? Not happening with kids. Use any downtime to get them up and moving. Walk up and down the aisle if the seatbelt sign is off. You’d be surprised how much even a short walk can help burn off some of that restless energy.

Pro-tip: Strategically time bathroom breaks as a sneaky excuse for stretch time.

4. Hydrate and Stay Comfortable

Plane cabins are super dry, which can make your little one feel uncomfortable. Bring along a bottle of water or ask for one once you're onboard. Keeping them hydrated can prevent irritability and discomfort. If you're traveling with a baby, feeding them can be a great opportunity to keep them hydrated while also comforting them.

After Landing: The Final Stretch

1. Disembark Calmly

At the end of a long flight, your patience may be wearing thin. You’re ready to get off the plane and head to your hotel, right? Take your time. Allow everyone else to disembark first—there’s no need to rush to get into a crowded aisle with a kid in tow. You’ll thank yourself for letting it calm down before you pack up and go.

2. Break Up the Journey if You Can

If you’re facing a long-haul flight with kids, consider breaking it up into shorter legs. Layovers can be a blessing in disguise because it gives both you and your child a chance to stretch, explore the terminal, and burn off some energy. Plus, it breaks the journey into more manageable pieces for everyone.

Extra Pro Tips: Because We All Need Backup!

1. Use Family-Friendly Airlines and Routes

Some airlines are notably more accommodating to children, offering extras like in-flight kids’ meals, child-friendly entertainment, and even activity kits. Do your research ahead of time—sometimes paying a bit extra for a family-friendly airline can make all the difference in your travel experience.

2. Opt for Red-Eye Flights (But Only If Your Kids Can Sleep Anywhere)

If your child is a good sleeper, booking a red-eye flight might end up being your ticket to a smoother journey. Your child will (hopefully) sleep through most of the flight, giving you a bit of peace. But beware, this tactic can backfire if your child has trouble sleeping in new environments.

3. Stay Calm and Flexible

Finally, the ultimate tip: stay flexible. Things won’t always go perfectly, and that’s okay. Whether it’s a delayed flight or a forgotten favorite blanket, staying level-headed goes a long way. Kids pick up on our stress, so if you remain calm, they’re more likely to follow your lead.

Conclusion

Flying with kids is a different type of adventure, but it's nothing you can't handle! With a bit of planning, the right attitude, and these insider tips, you’ll be well-equipped to tackle your flight like a seasoned pro. Just remember: every journey has its bumps, but the memories you’ll make with your children will far outweigh any mid-air tantrum.

So, pack those snacks, charge the tablet, and get ready to create travel memories that both you and your kids will treasure for years to come. Happy flying!